Frequently Asked Questions

What is your Tribute?
A tribute (from Latin, tributum, contribution) is wealth that a party gives to another as a sign of respect or, as was often the case in historical contexts, of submission or allegiance.

My real time session tribute varies, between $300/hr to $400/hr, depending on session activities and intricacy of a scene. I do offer a discounted tribute for longer appointments. For those who have served me often at my former company, you may be entitled to a discounted tribute as well. Please inquire via my SUBMISSION form.

  • Real time sessions: $300-$400 per hour
  • Skype sessions: $4.00 per minute
  • Skype consultations: $3.00 per minute
  • Phone sessions & consultations: $2.50 per minute

 
Please inquire for the following:

  • Outcall
  • Social Rendezvous – Shopping, Lunch, Dinner, Events, etc
  • Extended & Overnight
  • Private Travel
  • Double Domme – Check out my FRIENDS
  • Group Experiences with vanilla girlfriends
  • Public Play

 
My special interests – inquire for tribute:

  • Corporal Punishment: If you are a masochist or pain-slut, I offer discounted sessions focusing on whipping, canning, and/or paddling. No other activities are allowed. Only medium to intense level players need apply.
  • Foot massager: If you are a true foot service sub, I offer discounted sessions focusing on foot and calf massaging. No toe sucking and no other activities allowed.

What are your hours?
Sessions are conducted Monday through Sunday between the hours of 10:00am to 11:00pm. At my discretion, I do offer late night appointments.

I prefer 24 hours notice to book a session, especially with new clients. Skype and phone sessions may be booked with shorter notice depending on availability.

Where are you located?
All in-person sessions take place at my fully equipped private play studio near Madison Square Park in the Flatiron District of New York City.

When I am conducting sessions in San Francisco, I play in two beautiful fully equipped play studios in SF proper and West Oakland.

What are your first time requirements?
For real time sessions, I have very common and simple requirements for new play partners:

  • References: I need at least one (1) current reference from an active provider. You must have seen her in the last two (2) years and she must have a website and email. A current advertisement will suffice as well.
    • If you are unable to provide references, I will require a larger deposit as a show of good faith.
    • Alternatively, you may schedule a short phone appointment so we can become acquainted. Phone tribute will apply.
  • Deposit: To ensure your earnestness, I ask for a small deposit to hold your appointment. I will waive the deposit if you are able to provide two (2) references that verify your exceptional behavior.

 
Skype and phone appointments do not need a reference or deposit but full tribute will be requested ahead of time.

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What is your cancellation policy?
I understand that emergencies and other unexpected life events come up and can throw a monkey wrench in our plans – however, last minute cancellations are quite disruptive to my schedule.

Please be respectful of my time and provide me with at least 24 hours notice for general cancellations. Your deposit will be applied to your future appointment. However, less than 24 hours notice will result in a loss of your deposit. If you did not provide a deposit, I will require one before allowing you to schedule another session (this applies to same day appointments as well).

Do you require a deposit?
Yes, I do require a small deposit from all new clients to confirm an in-person session. It is a show of good faith that you will keep your appointment or provide adequate notice (at least 24 hours) of any cancellation or changes.

However, I do not require a deposit if you are able to provide at least two (2) current references from other Professional Dominas verifying your exceptional behavior.

Deposits are non-refundable and will go towards your cash tribute.

  • $50 for single hour sessions
  • $75 for two hour sessions
  • $100 for three hours or more
  • Long term or Travel appointments: Deposits TBD

 
Deposit options:

Do you require references?
Yes & No!

Providing references is important to helping establish an initial trust between you and I. This is a safety measure as well as a show of respect and accountability. I require the following:

  • One (1) current and active Provider’s name, website, and email. A current advertisement will suffice.
  • Retired or non-current references may be accepted at my discretion. Please provide their name, website, social media, and email.
  • I do not call to confirm references – please provide an email.

 
Newcomers: If you are new and do not have references to provide, I completely understand. However, I will require an additional deposit to ensure your earnestness. In some cases, I may require you to schedule a short phone consultation (phone tribute will apply).

Do you offer outcall sessions?

Yes, I do accommodate outcall sessions but at my discretion. I require additional tribute plus the covering of travel costs.

Do you take credit cards?

No, tribute must be given in cash.

Is your tribute negotiable?

No. Please refer to “What is your Tribute?” for complete discount information.

What is the best way to contact you?
If you would like to make me extremely happy and start off on a good note, please thoroughly fill out my SUBMISSION form. After many years of communication with potential play partners, I have created a form to efficiently help me familiarize myself with you and determine our compatibility.

If you prefer to send a well thought out and respectful email, I would enjoy that as well. Please provide all the necessary information I require, as I do not appreciate unnecessary back and forth emails.

I am a Novice, where do I start?
When contacting a Mistress, there are many “do’s” and “don’ts” that may be hard to recognize. I recommend reading this informative piece by my friend Domina Esme Crane:

“How to contact & serve a Professional Dominatrix”

I am not into pain, do you offer painless sessions?

Yes, I offer and enjoy a wide variety of activities, kinks, and fetishes. Please visit the PLAY section of my website to read more about what I enjoy. The list is not comprehensive so please feel free to inquire about specific activities via my SUBMISSION form.

How should I prepare before seeing you?
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”
– Benjamin Franklin

I appreciate those who take the time to make a good impression. A few keys ways to start off on the right foot:

  • Re-read my emails and make sure you have followed any given instructions such as confirming your appointment at a specific time.
  • Practice good personal hygiene – freshly showered, teeth brushed, and no heavy cologne please.
  • Tidy clothing – sloppiness is not attractive.
  • Activity specific preparation – If you have requested certain types of play that require you to be extra clean, please take the necessary steps to do just that.
  • Tribute placed in an envelope – for extra brownie points, a handwritten note or card would put a smile on my face.

Can I make an outfit request for our session?
Yes, I am open to reasonable outfit requests done in advance. I have a large fetish and non-fetish wardrobe that I enjoy wearing but a polite and respectful request is expected.

If you have an extremely specific outfit request, feel free to inform me but you may be required to provide the outfit.

Can I be your personal slave?
Possibly.

Being a personal slave is not an easy task. It requires a lot of time, effort, and training. For many, the reality vs. the fantasy of being a personal slave is not what they expect and usually unpleasant. It is neither a free session nor a way to get your kinky rocks off – it is HARD WORK.

Being a personal slave is reserved for those who truly have a service-oriented mentality and who gain a sense of value and worth through their devotion and service to another. For the right person, it can be extremely rewarding and fulfilling.

If you would like to earn the chance to become my personal slave, I require you to start off as a loyal submissive/client. Through regular in-person sessions, I am able to assess our compatibility and determine your capabilities. It can be a long process filled with many tests and challenges. I take slave training very seriously and would require you to do so as well.