Thoughts

Podcast Interview on “Was that Good for You?”

Check out my most recent interview I did with Raya Carmona for her podcast "Was that Good for You?" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-art-of-the-dominatrix/id1465024739?i=1000585848577……


New Domina-in-Training

I have a new Domina-in-training until Jan 2023.  Her name is Kei (pronounced Kay) Izumi but you may call her Mistress Izumi.  As she is at the start of her journey, I will not reveal too much about…


After all these years

I received an email the other week - unsolicited- asking if they could provide a reflection of our time together back in December of 2017 as they still think of it often.  Even though they are…


A sweet note from a newbie sub s

My heart is warm when a novice makes the leap to schedule their first or one of their first sessions with me.  I recognize it must be a scary thing to do - exciting as well but still scary.…


Men who love to wear panties

I am a BIG fan of having as many men wear lace-y, frilly, and pretty panties.  Not only do I find it immensely amusing having a submissive wear a pair I would never be caught dead in but bending…


Tell me all your dirty secrets

I have no clue why I am such a curious person - maybe I was born this way but sometimes I think back about how my curiosity informed my world.  I would hear a noise in the middle of the night and I…


I love playing with novice submissives

I am coming up to my 12 year anniversary of being a Pro Domme and one of the things I have learned about myself is that I love to teach new Dommes and train new subs.  The look in their eyes when we…


My once a month kinky event

As I started my new chapter this year, one of the experiences I wanted to create was a monthly kinky event.  I wasn't interested in organizing a party but more of an experience especially a bonding…


Beg for me

I have a kink for 'begging'.  I loooove to make someone beg and truly become desperate.  Maybe it's the emotional sadist in me or maybe it's just the power... either way begging is so much fun in a…


TRAVEL: Boston May 27/28 + San Fran May 30/31 & June 1

I don't tour often...well ever.  There are only two cities I visit to play: Boston and San Francisco.  Why you might ask? First, I hate traveling with my tools.  I get worried that they will lose my…