Curiosity Over Certainty
BDSM invites curiosity over certainty. The moment we release the script—how we think dominance or submission should look—we begin to find what power and surrender could be. Every scene holds a…
Take a Deep Breath: It’ll Be Okay
In BDSM, calm and chaos are not opposites—they are companions. Within every scene, there’s a pulse of contradiction: pain and peace, surrender and strength, fear and trust. We breathe through it all.…
Growth in kink rarely arrives in comfort
Growth in kink rarely arrives in comfort. It reveals itself in the trembling pause before surrender, in the first sting of a whip, in the quiet acceptance of being seen exactly as you are. “Take a…
Featherbound – Do you love tickling?
You already know what happens when I reach for the feathers. Your breath catches before they even touch you. But tonight, I’m not letting you move. Your wrists are bound, your body stretched open —…
Loving This Life, Without Fear
There’s a moment, before every act of courage, where fear still lingers. A breath catches in the chest, the pulse quickens, and the mind hesitates — what if this part of me is too much, too strange,…
Power in the pause.
There is a rare kind of power in stillness—an authority that does not shout or demand but lingers in the space between inhale and exhale. In kink, and especially within the quiet architecture of…
The Art of Continuing to Learn
This may come as a surprise, but even after being in this industry for over 14 years, I still take kinky educational classes.For me, learning has always been an act of devotion — to my craft, my…
BDSM Checklist
I created this list with the help of a few current lists available online as well as with the help of a few other Dominas. It is not meant to be an exhaustive list of every kink/interest there are…
Reflection by sub m – My very first session
Did you know it's never too late to start your BDSM journey? Novice subs come in all genders, shapes, sizes and ages. :-) The one common thing I do hear from new subs who start their journey later…
Erotic Art
I assigned a little writing task to My art loving submissive and asked him to choose an artist that made him feel connected to his kinks as well as an artist that he felt represented Me. He wrote…