Power in the pause.
There is a rare kind of power in stillness—an authority that does not shout or demand but lingers in the space between inhale and exhale. In kink, and especially within the quiet architecture of…
The Art of Continuing to Learn
This may come as a surprise, but even after being in this industry for over 14 years, I still take kinky educational classes.For me, learning has always been an act of devotion — to my craft, my…
BDSM Checklist
I created this list with the help of a few current lists available online as well as with the help of a few other Dominas. It is not meant to be an exhaustive list of every kink/interest there are…
Reflection by sub m – My very first session
Did you know it's never too late to start your BDSM journey? Novice subs come in all genders, shapes, sizes and ages. :-) The one common thing I do hear from new subs who start their journey later…
Erotic Art
I assigned a little writing task to My art loving submissive and asked him to choose an artist that made him feel connected to his kinks as well as an artist that he felt represented Me. He wrote…
Erotica: “Dr. Berlin” by sub d
This is a story about cuckold clean up and erotic humiliation. If that doesn't float your boat please don't read further. Kelly was nervous about registering for the appointment. She had never seen a…
Research and reflections by sub m
I have said this a million times, if you are new to BDSM and want to find a provider, do your research. The more you learn about the provider you want to submit to, the better. Doing your research…
Fisting
Honestly, this website is super thorough so I don’t have to write much. This is a favorite activity of mine but I understand its not for everyone. No one kink is for everyone. Have fun reading:…
“She knows how to take full control and still give you what you need” – Reflection from sub s
Most submissives who come across My site and see My pictures assume I must be mean and "too hardcore" -and I get I come across a certain way in photos - however I have a very sensual side as well.…
“I am a better man today because of this experience.” Reflection by sub s
"After far too long of a hiatus, I had the honor of serving Mistress Lucy Sweetkill and Mistress Amalia Valentine in what was a life affirming and life altering experience. My interest in kink and…