Review by Sub L
I have been sessioning with Mistress Lucy on and off for almost ten years. I had been sessioning with many different Dommes and was still figuring out what I enjoyed in a session. I went in to my first ever experience not knowing what to ask for. All I had were photos, videos, and stories that I saw online for many years. Mentally, I thought I wanted everything that I had seen or read but when it came down to it, I actually did not enjoy a lot of things I thought I would. I thought a session meant feeling a ton of pain, which I do not enjoy at all.
Before ever meeting Mistress Lucy, I had some great sessions and some very bad ones as well and thought maybe this wasn’t actually for me….that maybe I would always have these unfulfilled submissive desires. It wasn’t until I sessioned with Mistress Lucy that this fulfillment could be found. I learned that a great session does not only have to involve whips, paddles, and pain.
I could go into specifics about what our session entailed but everyones fantasy will be different. The hardest part is truly finding what actually brings you joy in this lifestyle. It is a journey that requires a second person to help you get to the destination. How did Mistress Lucy do this? She ASKED QUESTIONS! She forced me to verbalize what my desires actually were and then hammered down into the specifics of them – all without me even realizing she was trying to create the perfect session for me. Everyone in the kink community knows how therapeutic it is to verbalize our thoughts and desires because we generally tend to suppress them and doing so was extremely liberating. Due to this communication our sessions evolved into something greater than I could ever imagine a session to have been. I have found exactly what I want out of a session due to Mistress Lucy’s talents – something that took many many years of good and bad experiences with other Dommes.
Mistress Lucy provides an extremely professional environment and setting. Her greatest talent is mentally connecting with you and this aspect is very rare to find. I truly felt like a real submissive and slave for those moments.
I would imagine that most submissives are very similar. We walk around with these thoughts in our head every hour of every day. Most of us dream of a 24/7 lifestyle but for a variety of reasons this is not an option. Some of us have partners that may be on the vanilla side that we know we cannot share this with. But a fact of life is accepting that one person may not be able to fill every void that we have. This is why I am so incredibly happy that I have found Mistress Lucy. To connect with her on both a physical level for a few hours every now and then is extremely liberating. Her ability to get me to verbalize my desires is like 1000 pounds coming off my shoulders and then her ability to connect the mental and physical is second to none. These few hours allow me to function normally afterwards on a day to day basis…to get these constant thoughts out of my head (not that I do not enjoy the thoughts, but they can cause a great deal of anxiety). Some people may debate this, but it keeps my relationship at home MUCH stronger and healthier.
It is apparent that Mistress Lucy loves what she does. Without this you cannot have a great session. I have that utmost respect for Mistress Lucy and I know that she has the same respect for me (no matter what really odd desires I may have) – and that is exactly why I continue to go back.
Those on the outside may read this and think it’s crazy. But to those in the community – you get it.